‘Of Cabbages & Kings…’ Archives
The Pilgrims’ Plan
Fifteen brave men and women of the Our Lady of the Miraculous Medal, Marasbaras spearheaded by the young and robust Parish Priest father Aaron Quilaneta trooped to Southern Leyte for a pilgrimage. The trip started with a rezada, or a simple mass void of songs, as well as a prayer to St. Raphael for safe travel and a happy return. The pilgrims, armed with supplies to last a month and tales of Eliott A. – comical, satirical, blasphemous and religious energized the tired and weary [...]
Romancing Change
I would not consider myself to be a rapper, neither do I totally admire rappers. The latest events, critical reviews, multimedia extravaganzas and much more on rap music only compound my bias for this genre. Indeed I grew up in a home that incorporates the sounds of F. Sinatra, the Platters, Matt Monroe, the Carpenters, Ray Connif, the saxophone of Kenny G, and the like. While writing this copy to the soundtrack of After the Lovin , Only You and Unforgettable of Natalie Cole, you [...]
Fondly, Pectay
Fondly, we call her “Pectay.” A state auditor by accident and a training officer by another organizational accident. In the vernacular, the endearment means one who is “comical and inconsistent.” She entertains no qualms nor conceit about this label and admits that she deserves the etymology of the nickname. During the workshop, our paths crossed once more. There is nothing more wonderful than having long lost friends reunited after years of being officially apart. Yes, blame [...]
Jolly, rolly Polly is 18
Polly is 18. But she is not going to enlist in military school. Slender, than all the five sisters, she has grew up into a delightful woman - got long legs, long black shiny hair, deep-set black eyes, cherry red lips and so full of humor that would make any girl next door turn pea green with envy! But she has enlisted in the ISO certified company as trainer cum dealer. Below her are older boys and girls who think Polly is mature to emote the role, though too young and fresh for the [...]
“… writing an exact man.”
I want to prove that Francis Bacon was or is right. To complete the statement, he said, “ Reading makes a full man, conference a ready man, and writing an exact man.” Indeed an ignorant man is in total darkness. But when he reads, he is enlightened and his perspectives change. As a consequence, this ignorant-turned reader man is ready to debate or argue with what he has read and learned. True, he may either be correct or incorrect, but the point is, he is able to advance his [...]
Grooming your boys for priesthood?
Jan Carlo and Sebastian are in grade one. Talking to them, I always convey to them dearly that to enter priesthood would do good for boys and for the family. Carlo, witty and sly asks, “Will I have plenty of coins in my pocket?” Much to Sebastian’s curiosity and excitement, who reparteed, “I can have coins all the same everyday without wearing the white garment.” Tongue-tied and uncertain what to answer back, I just smiled and may I refer this to my reverend parish priest for a [...]
Philippine GEM out-springs rich nations
Philippine women are lucky. They can work, pursue careers, vote, drink and drive. In year 2007, among 186 countries, the top five countries with high GEM’s are: Sweden, Norway, Finland, Denmark, Netherlands, and Finland. USA, 8th, Singapore, 9th , Russian Federation, 60th and the Philippines, 59th. Ironically, rich Japan, 57th, Republic of Korea , 61th and Saudi Arabia, 106th. The Gender Empowerment Measure (GEM) is a measure of inequalities between men’s and women’s opportunities [...]
Facilitation Faux Pas, Anyone?
It hurts. But it happens so often, should there be a law against it! Imagine, there is a meeting of five people. The facilitator is in the front leading the session. The discussion has been building up on the best approach for solving a sticky issue. However, over the past ten minutes there seems to be a general opposition. The facilitator cuts in. Facilitator: It sounds like we are getting nowhere. Can I call for a coffee break? Ella: It is big work. May be we can review the [...]
Finding My Rhythm
One of the big things that has changed in my life since I turned golden is the subsequent career changes and how I constantly involve myself in a lot of self-evaluation than I used to be. I am constantly looking at how I do things, looking for ways to improve the quality and value of how I spend my time and energy and resources. I have noticed lately how much of my life seems to move along with a particular rhythm. What I mean is that I go through periods of heightened efficiency. I get [...]
When friends act like moms
Definitely, this is a very awkward situation. Although friends wear many hats – mentor, manager, crying shoulder, counselor, etc. friends and special friends do act like moms. Actually, this role poses a psychological blackmail to the recipient. And not only that, one questions the kind of concern and professionalism one has towards others. One reaction would be to try your level best to reason out. Reason out, cite the reasons for the behaviour audited, without getting too personal. [...]
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